“We project onto the concept of ‘boy’ all these inherited ideas which really have very little to do with boys’ actual natures and we gender them. We police boys into conformity in a way that robs them of really important developmental conditions and assets—the most fundamental of which is freedom to be themselves.” Michael Reichert and Dr. Robyn Silverman discuss how to raise a boy to be a good man on the top rated parenting podcast, How to Talk to Kids about Anything .